Tonight was a write off! I got a a message on my computer when I came upstairs from seeing the kid and the X off for their weekend at my parents house up north. It said, "S.O.S. PLEASE CALL ME!" from a guy I met online but wasn't into so stayed friends with but had never met in real life. He was meant to be on a repeat date with a girl who had stood him up the week before. She hadn't showed again! He was a couple of blocks away he said. Not what I wanted to be doing but he sounded upset so I invited him round.
Long story short, the guy was an asshole and was mostly mental. It took me a bit to realise this though as I just assumed he was stressed at being stood up yet again.
Turns out he was just an aggressive jerk. He was nice enough TO me, but the things he said about other girls he's dated... the lies he's told, OMG. He kept ordering me drinks. I just wanted to peace out. By 11:30 I went one way and he went the other and I thanked my lucky stars I was rid of him!
I went out with Budd Guy again yesterday. I had given him the green light to make a move but we spent the entire day together and I really wasn't feeling it. He's so lovely and cute and has such a sexy voice but I need someone who CAN take control of me and this guy clearly can't. I'm finding out more and more than timidness turns me off.
Anyway, I could see that he was sticking around and sticking around, waiting for an opening. He was meant to peace out around 5 and come 8:30 he was still here but needing to leave. I took pity and walked him down to his car. When we got there he was ready to leave but I went over and hugged him and nuzzled his neck and said, "I had a really nice day!". And then he kissed me. It was nice, but too little too late.
(sigh)
Still nothing from Surf. 
